In my country (eastern Europe) I was obliged to go to military or alternative service in the early 90s. Alternative service meant to be assigned to work in a hospital or school or similar assignment for 1,5 year. But society decided alternative service is not good for true christians...
When we asked "why"? Society said "Dont ask so silly questions... it is clear and obvious!"
So brothers had to decide: Either to go to prison for not going to the alternative service (many many really did...) or be disfellowshipped (many many really were...)
Actually there was another option, encuraged by the Bethel: Go to the psychotherapist, lie to him you are mentally sick, have suicidal ideas etc. and be declared insane to serve in the army (many many really did so...) .
This was my issue at the time and I was just minutes frm getting into prison. Also my nonbelieveing family thought I must be an idiot avoiding alternative service, giving stupid illogical reasons...
Many were questioning the policy of the society.... "whats wrong in helping in a hospital and this way be deleted from the army records...." but we only got arrgant and zealous speeches from COs and DOs... "It is so clear brothers, how can you even think about serving the alternative service and have doubts abut FDS...!"
And then all of sudden in 1996 WT came saying "In countries, where it is possible to serve an alternative service to a military training, it is a fine way for christians to do so and this way to show obedience to the authorities blah blah...."
And then a letter came to the elders: How should we view brothers, who were DF for serving alternative service before WT stated it is possible? They are still DF and we will not apologize to them. However, if they will ask us to allow them to return to the flock, we will consider their request... blah blah blah "
Idiots and hypocrites!
Albert